IN THE AFTERNOON: Body Drama 

This post will be short because I’m doing this on my phone while I am in class

My computer has been messed up for two weeks and I’m so sad because I am probably going to have to pay to get it fix

However, I am just going to stay as positive as possible because it is not the end of the world

ANYWAYS HELLO EVERYONE!

I’ve been pretty sick this week and probably will still be sick for the rest of this week but I’ll talk about body drama

And I call this body drama because I feel like sometimes we look at our body and hate it and that’s okay because you can always change it

Sometimes I look at the scale or the mirror and just feel like my body isn’t changing fast enough

BUT ITS OKAY!

Our bodies work at their own time and we have to be weary of how we judge it

Let’s be happy for the little things like the fact you ate some fruits today

Or the facts that you picked up the vegetables instead of some junk food

Or if you ate junk food that you only ate a one instead of a ton

Let’s be happy for the things that we have and that we love and be grateful

Let’s be okay with a stretchies(stretch marks and our like bumps and bruises)

I love my body and you should too! No one is perfect no one can change in one day

Photoshop is real but life will always be there

And it’ll get better your clothes will fit better

Your body will feel better I promise 😊👌🏽


Unrelated but I really really have been loving these toners !! They are also multi use you can use them as setting sprays or to resfresh your unrelated again and not sponsor but let’s glow!

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IN THE MORNING: GET UP AND GET

My sanity lol JK springtrip/food/life

If anyone would like to help me out for this spring trip that would be great! my friends and I are planning to go to Ireland or somewhere tropical the cost is about 1000 and I have about half that money 😶 BTW pay my own bills and as a college student I know some can relate it's hard

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HELLO! And Welcome so today I’ll make this very short

I am a college student and like most college student I am broke 🤷🏽‍♀️ It is just the way of life

HOWEVER I tend to give lots of advice of usually have really good advice to give so

Ask me anything!!!! I would like to do a Q&A

alsooo for those that follow me and wanna help we out with some loan or are just feeling generous or just like my content and want to show it

Any donation will be helpful 🙂 and greatly appreciated

I do work two jobs and wanted to treat myself for a trip in the spring because I’ve been in college for four years and have never gone traveling

BUT school and food is very expensive so

boooo! Yea I know but it’s just the way of life

So yeah in keeping this short

Any donation will be helpful 🙂 and greatly appreciated

Thank you may you be blessed!

IN THE AFTERNOON: THE NEGATIVE EFFECTS OF COLLEGE

So this is a more serious topic and will probably be one of the more serious ones in my college edition

But I do feel like I need to talk about this topic because although college is great and experience so much in that time; some of these experiences are not always positive

And I feel like people don’t like talking about these experiences

And I want people that have had these experience maybe while they were in college or they had it at work or anywhere knows that they can ask for help and that its okay to not know what to do

I personally went through a lot of negative things in college that all shaped me as a person. I first lost friends that I thought I would have for a lifetime and thought maybe I did something wrong. But, ultimately I figured out this is just how life works.

Loss of sleep was such a big thing because it really can mess with your body and also not sleeping at around the same time everyday. I, like many college students, do not sleep my full 8 hours and also do not sleep at the same time everyday. This made me even more tired, gave me more headaches and just made me unhealthier.

Combined with loss of sleep I gained weight and it was more like freshman 50. And although gaining weight wasn’t the biggest issue, what was the biggest issue was that I was not eating right. Most of the time I would find myself ordering out and eating junk food. This lead me to what I self diagnosed as gastritis and let me tell you it is not fun. Vomiting and feeling nauseous with belly pain is the WORST. To the point that it makes you not want to eat because your scared you will vomit what you just ate or won’t be able to sleep.

Some people lose weight because they forget to eat and that can be scary too.

I had minor anxiety and depression while in college. Although it wasn’t severe it was still there and it was kind of scary sometimes because it can take over your life. Sometimes I didn’t want to get out of bed and not cause I needed more hours of sleep(because I do) but because I just felt like why should I. And I know other college students such as myself who deal with these same issues.

Now last but not least college can get you addicted to drug or alcohol. I personally decided to stay away from these thing for the better of my health but I know others that use it. And it all depends why you do it and how much you consume… but most times its because your out and about in a party or you need an extra boost to get you to pull your all nighter. I’ve heard people taking adderall to make them focus and I’ve also heard of people drinking because they’re depressed.

Now I just want to say that there are always resource on college campus to help you out with any of these issues SO pleasee reach out if you need it. There are health centers, hotlines or even asking a friend for help.

ALSO I want to say the college experience is not always bad!! Its not and you will meet so many people that’ll make it better. I’ll also write a post of the positives of college. College is just an experience of life and its a roller coaster but its worth it.

BE the healthiest you can be and treat your body righht!! See ya!

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Side Notes; Curvy Gurls Winning 

Yassss

Thank you to yesika on this fine morning that she reminds everyone we should not body shame and that curvy girls are beauts!!!!

Also DO NOT SETTLE! 

That’s is all 🙂

(This photo was via instagram @yesikastarr) 

IN THE MORNING: Home is where the Heart is 

A little back story so I was watching this documentary called the minimalist(its on Netflix btw) and it really did open my eyes and give me a change in perspective

They essentially talk about how we usually collect all this stuff most of which we don’t use or has no value to us and how we can de-clutter our lives and have happier ones as a result

I immediately went through my clothes and took out items I knew I wouldn’t wear and decided to donate them instead

But I did minimal things here and there because I do believe you can still have decor in your house that means something to you

Five item essentials to make your home and you(obviously) a little brighter and better:

  1. This Himalayan rock salt lamp is a must have for your room or living room. When my mom first bought this I was a bit skeptical but when its turned on and you touch it, you immediately become calm. It can clean the air around you and can be used when doing some meditation. Its not too bulky so it won’t take a lot of space in your house. Also its 16 bucks which is a steal (compared to reg price)!!Screen Shot 2017-07-31 at 8.57.09 AM.png
  2. On the subject of Himalayan salt, there is also a cutting board which seems pretty cool and can also give a lot of flavor to your food! If your a foodie and love to cook this is definitely something to try out in a house or over the grill. I suggest getting the tray as well since the himalayan salt can get dirty. This retails for 30 dollars.Screen Shot 2017-07-31 at 9.11.07 AM.png
  3. Blankets are probably one of my favorite things in the whole world and because of this I keep a few in the living room for myself and guest. I like really soft cozy ones but that can be affordable. Target is a great place to get your monies worth without putting a hole in your pocket.

    Items above by number: 1. 2. 3. 4.

  4. Candles!! They smell so good and can give you a relaxing vibe (if your in the mood). They also can give your room a cute look without being overwhelming. I personally love candles in my room. Just remember to turn them off. I usually prefer candles in jars.

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5. Last but not least some plants or flowers are great to give your place a cute look without spending a bunch of dollarrss. Remembering to water a plant is sometimes a hard job but seeing it grow is actually really rewarding. You can get flowers and plant seeds at your local store. Down below I’ll show some of my favorite flowers/plants.

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AND thats is all Comment,like, share and tell me some of your favorite items and if you would like me to do more of these

(images from section 1 is from amazon, images from section two is William and Sonoma, images from section 3 and 4 from target and images from section 5 is home depot)

IN THE TEMPRANO: New Beginnings 

I truly believe that everything happens for a reason and that most times we can’t control what happens to us 

BUT we can control how we react to these things 

NOW I wanted to make this short but very informative because let’s be honest sometimes reading long article,blogs journals etc.. is a lot so bare with me 

This summer has taught me a lot about myself and although it’s not completely over yet I thought reflecting midway would be a good idea 

Now I’m not perfect and I make mistakes all the time but I always try to improve myself and make myself to be the best version of me 

And yes that sounds corny but it’s true and it’s also necessary 

I am trying to get back to the basics the parts that I really liked about myself that I’ve lost but I’m also evolving myself and reaching out when I can 

So I say all of this to let you guys know that it’s okay to feel down and to have off days 

It’s okay if you need outlets and extra help (having a therapist doesn’t mean your insane) and I think it’s great to ponder and reflect on the things you need to improve in yourself

You can become new everyday. You can have a new beginning 

All you have to do is try to be the best you that you can be 

Now I challenge you to try something new tomorrow it could be anything and it could be small but just try it 

LIKE, COMMENT SHARE LAUGH CRY EAT whatever gets you through the day :))))) have a great one though 


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IN THE LATE LATE NIGHT: Darkest before the Dawn 

So my health has been pretty much Crap and I’ve been feeling pretty low most days but It’s fine cause I’ll get better

It is true what they say that you might have some pretty bad days but there would always be some good the key is to be optimistic, to understand the situation your in now, own it and figure out how to either fix it or work around it

And trust me when I say this is probably a big low for me this summer because everytime I think I’m getting better with my health something else happens

BUTTTTT a lot of good has come out of this and I’ll tell you some

First I realized that I need to eat better and have a healthier lifestyle if I want to enjoy my time here and I just need to be more aware of what I’m putting into my body

I realized that’s getting sick really sucks and not knowing what’s going on with you sucks even more

I realized that I need other outlets that can help me balance and keep me sane and one of those things is Headspace (App) it’s basically a meditation app and the guy that talks for the meditation; his voice is so soothing and after a session I promise you’ll feel zen

I also pray, I know for some that isn’t an option but an alternative could be mediation similar to meditation, prayer keeps me happy and optimistic while also giving me some peace

I also read because it calms me down while also teaching me something right now I read medical journals because they just interest me

I also realize that people really do work at their own pace and that right now my body is saying to take care of myself

I am more aware of myself and my surroundings and am taking the steps to better myself and I hope that this could inspire or comfort someone that is going through a similar situation

Comment, Like, Share would love to hear ya!! Have a great day and if your having a really bad day just remember that after darkness is light.


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Also lmk if you guys want me to recommend any bible apps or medical journals apps :))))

IN THE MORNING: HELP

Theres nothing wrong with asking someone for help

And I know its hard for some people because being prideful is a really hard thing to deal with

And having to ask for help could seem more like a job then actually something that could help you in the future

BUT we all need help sometimes no matter how independent we might think we are

And it could be for the smallest thing or for a life changing thing but you need help

So ask for help!

You might not like the answers and you might not even like what people have to tell you or when they also include their opinion along with their answer

But thats a step you took and eventually if you keep asking question and figure out whats the right question to ask then you’ll get the answer you want

And nothing feels better then getting the right answer

or better an answer and an action

SO I’m here to tell  you that SUCK IN YOUR PRIDE and just ask the question

and if you don’t get the answer you want then ask a better question or ask someone else because eventually you’ll get the answer

AND don’t give up just don’t….don’t do it….. I’m telling you not to

Because eventually you’ll look back and think maybe I should of done more or maybe I should have asked that question

AND last thought (promise)

If the answers are taking a little longer then usually to get to you BE PATIENT I understand I’m very impatient myself but a desperate person looking for an answer is not the best thing

So relax, ask questions and wait to see what comes along

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IN THE MORNING : PACING 

There is nothing wrong with working at your own pace or having your own pace 
And I completely understand that sometimes working at your own pace is not an option when there are other factors involved
BUTTTTTTTTT  I am here to tell you and you and youuuuu that working at your own pace is completely FINE 
I know it can be a little discouraging when everyone else is getting a house or a car or is settled down and your still living with a roommate or still have that horrible job 
But all of this is temporary all of this will end eventually 
If you think back in time, you weren’t taking L’s(loses) forever….eventually something good came along 
And sometime gals and guys we will have to take those L’s because it’s life and there’s not much we can do about it
But even when you getting back on your feet from all those L’s you can start to work at a better you and I’m not here promoting you to sit on the couch all day and think about it and eat those nachos (I mean eat your nachos) 
BUTTTTTTTT(how many times am I going to say but) if you need some time to chill and relax and collect your thoughts thats completely fine 
And don’t let anyone make you feel guilty if one day all you want to do is chug a bottle of wine or watch a marathon because it is your right 
So do what you gottaaa do and be great!!!!

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IN THE GOOD MORNING: CURVY GIRLS

Well a little back story before I begin 

First let me just say I’m pretty late to the grey’s anatomy boat but this show is just too good I go through seasons so fast and now I’m up to season 7 Episode 16

Let me know whats your favorite season?

Anyways so when I was younger all my cousins were pretty skinny and I was always one of the curvier girls however in a Spanish household they consider you fat

I hadn’t realized till now that their was nothing wrong with the weight I had back then and that the influence your family has on you was tremendous 

Anyways I would always try these diets and try to lose those extra 20 pounds until I got to college 

And let me tell you when I got to college I gained so much weight probably like 40-50 pounds in a span of 2 years 

And it had a tremendous impact on me because again my family made sure I knew about the weight gain and my cousins were still skinny 

Now being the odd ball out is hard because you don’t feel worthy but a couple of weeks ago I’ve been having stomach pains (really bad ones) and I decided that I need to change my eating habits

And although I love food, I also love my life and I know that I have to do better for me and for no one else

And this took me a really long time to understand because before I would try to lose weight to get more guys to notice me or to get my family to be happy with the weight I was 

But now I realize that any change I make to my life is for me and has to be for me and to all the curvy girls that want to stay curvy DO IT! screw what anyone says!

Curvy girls can be fit and now all I want to do is eat better and become fit! 

Side note: Im LOVINGGGG how society is now loving curvy girls

YAS to the thunder thighs and the little rolls 

Let me know your experience with weight gain or how you dealt with your family 

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